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Saturday, August 7, 2010

Who are the people commonly associated with this case?

First of all, I would like to apologize to all of you because I am late to post the new entry. I failed to find a suitable time to post this entry. My bad. So, let me start our discussion for our first research question.

Baby dumping is a crime that always is a header on a front page of paper nowadays. This story relate to one of the most frightening realities in our culture today. As we know, this case is associated with certain people such as:

-Younger generation:
~ The culprits mostly among young mothers. Logically, there are no older generation reported involved in this case and dump their baby, right? That is why we pointed at young generation only. So, do not blame me for this! You guys can think by yourself. (My reason is logic right?)
~ As of all us know, younger generation (we can describe them as a teenager), they are immature and cannot make the right decision. When problem come up, usually they used to choose the simplest and fastest way to solve their problem. This condition makes them to choose to dump away their baby as long as no one knows.
Most of the young people have the same way of thinking. (My opinion is proven now!)

-Pregnant girl who has rejected by her own family and society
~ As a human, of course it breaks the heart if one of the family members makes something that is very shameful. According to this situation, families and communities struggle to accept the pregnant girl out of wedlock. It is such rejection that drives some women to dumping their newly born children. What we can conclude here is family play important role and is needed in every situation. So my opinion is;

“Do not dump your own family so that they will not dump their own baby”

It such a right quotes right? *lol*

-Family of the pregnant girl
~ We cannot blame on a person only. There have other reasons behind the scene. Family also is the one of the doers. They feel shame because one of the family members do something that illegal. People will not respect them anymore and always keep talking about this matter if they know. To avoid this thing to happen, some of them will force the pregnant girl to dump her baby after give birth. To be accepted back in her family, the girl will do anything because the situation that she face with.
In this context, family is still playing a role even though it is the negative one.

-The boy – father to the baby
~ Once they know that his girlfriend is pregnant, some of them will make a thousand and one excuses to leave the girl. Otherwise, they will find another alternative to solve their problem in the best way he can find. Most of them have a short thinking about this. Throw the baby is the common way they will choose. This is because the boy will feel scared and panic so that they choose whatever way that relevant to him to solve their problem that he created.


This is all that I’ve got. If you guys have additional point to add, please do so. So, what is your opinion? Do you agree or disagree? Or you have another point to talk about?